Why Passion Fades Even When Love Doesn’t (And How To Flip It Back On)
By Jessica M.
Last updated 2 months ago
“Eroticism is numbed by repetition. It thrives on the novel, the mysterious, the unexpected."
- Esther Perel, Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic.
This quote helped me understand…
Why our once electric sex lately felt like a chore.
I Never Thought It Would Happen to Us…
When we got married three years ago…
We simply couldn't keep our hands off each other.
But somewhere between the mortgage and the work deadlines…
We'd become roommates instead of lovers.
It’s like once we settled down…
Our sex hormones went out of whack…
Novelty wore off…
And the spark was gone.
One thing you have to know about me:
I am not a quitter.
So I started thinking:
Was there a way for our hot newlyweds sex transition to hot forever sex?
The Woman Who Spent 40 Years Studying Why Desire Dies
You've probably seen her on social media…
But Esther Perel is so much more than a social media darling.
She’s a renowned psychotherapist, author and clinical instructor at NYU School of Medicine.
But most importantly…
She has 40 years of experience counselling couples like us.
Her finding after all this time?
"Eroticism is numbed by repetition. It thrives on the novel, the mysterious, the unexpected."
I read that and felt it in my chest.
That was us.
Turns Out The Solution Was Simpler Than I Thought
What’s interesting is that Perel doesn't recommend grand gestures…
Uncomfortable conversations…
Or therapy homework.
The best way to reignite your intimate life is novelty.
Something small, playful…
And something you have never done before.
You don’t need to overthink this or make it hard.
But you DO need to make it fresh.
That's When I Found Mimosa… And Haven't Looked Back Since
I stumbled across it the way you find all good things:
On Reddit.
Women were raving about this thingie called Mimosa.
Even the name felt different.
Playful. Sweet. Almost innocent.
Mimosa combines tongue-like vibrations and suction…
So it feels like being kissed in the right place by someone who takes their sweet time.
With 10 modes to explore, it meets you exactly where you are.
It’s waterproof, whisper quiet, and a total steal for $69.
You bet I ordered it that same night…
And it arrived three days later in a plain box.
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The Night We Stayed Up Until 3am (And Didn't Regret A Thing)
That night I didn't think about the deadlines, the grocery list or the pile of laundry waiting…
Because we were too busy going at it like Duracell bunnies.
Afterwards he looked at me and said:
We need to do that more often.
And I felt it.
The rush, the electricity…
The feeling of being wanted by the person you chose…
And wanting them right back.
That's what a teeny bit of novelty can do for you.
It doesn't just wake up desire.
It wakes up the real you.
If Your Desire Has Dipped, This Is Your Wake-Up Call
Perel spent 40 years in the therapy room telling couples the same thing:
Desire doesn't need a plan…
Or hard work.
It needs a surprise.
And Mimosa is that sweet surprise.
It’s billed discreetly, arrives in plain packaging…
And can be yours for only $69.
Less than a dinner out for two…
Or 1 hour with a therapist…
And less than two rounds of cocktails on a Friday night.
And unlike all of those things…
Mimosa is the only one that brings the spark back.
Sale ends soon
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